When Master and I entered into D/s we'd been BDSM in the bedroom for decades - two to be exact, as long as we've been together. We were BDSM before we knew what it was. With the vocabulary I have now, I can see bondage, sensation deprivation, humiliation, voyeurism, and few other kinks in there. … Continue reading What’s in a (BDSM) symbol?
This weekend I got to hit subspace pretty completely - as in, it completely satisfied me! I've been needing it for a while. Master and I have been on a 'waning' phase due to work and the regular stress of life. At times like these I can feel it build up in me. I also … Continue reading When Master Wins, minnie wins!
A little over a week ago I went in for a tattoo consultation. I've got three tattoos I want to get done, and have been waiting for the right artist. I thought I found her. And I still think I did, except that she was going to take almost 3 months to get back to … Continue reading Getting my minnie tattoo!!
This 30 Days topic is about the ups and downs of life, the things that bring stress into a relationship, the things that pull you out of your D/s dynamic. I heard once that money, parenting, and the in-laws are the three biggest causes of divorce in a marriage. I would wager that was also … Continue reading The Waxing and Waning of D/s
I love polka dots. However, I don't have enough of them in my wardrobe. I had one skirt, which is now too small (along with most everything I own) because of the weight I've lost under Master's guidance. They are fun, playful, and yet classy and sophisticated. They also look great in any color, and … Continue reading Calling all Polka Dots.
The next 30 days topic from Loving BDSM is about maintaining D/s when you're apart. This could be in a long distance relationship, through dating, traveling, or any other space that pulls you out of that headspace. For us, that is our simple, everyday life. Neither of our jobs are such that we can stay … Continue reading Ya put your D/s in. Ya put your D/s out. Ya put your D/s in, and ya shake it all about!
The documentary is about women who have super orgasms. A super orgasm is one that lasts beyond your common single orgasm, even beyond the usual multiple orgasm. Instead, these orgasms push up into one another so fast, so frequent, that they stretch into clusters of unending orgams. They become indistinguishable from one another, so they … Continue reading Super orgasm? Yes, please!
Mr. R and I have a trip to Disneyland coming up in a couple weeks. We've taken our kids several times, but this will the first time we've gone alone since the 90s (*insert me jumping here). Mr.R has a Disneyland addiction. Yes, that's where 'minnie' (my name) came from. Before D/s, I never saw … Continue reading Being Brave: why I gave away the power to rule my kingdom.
We are about to rewrite our rules. There's not necessarily anything wrong with the ones we have, except they haven't been updated in a while. The 14th topic for Loving BDSM's 30 Days is rules, so it seems the perfect time to bring it up. Our rules have always been a work in progress. Or, … Continue reading Getting a brand new set of rules.
This is the 13th post of the 30 days of D/s. The topic here is about pain. Do you like pain? Do you want pain? Do you want to inflict pain? I would consider myself to be something of a masochist. So, yes, I want the pain. Masochist - A masochist is an individual who … Continue reading Hurt me.