Things have been really out of whack for me lately. We are trying to rearrange our life, so I don't have to work, and we can live off one income (or an income and a half). It is hard to say the least. Not the change in income, but the change in habits and ideas. … Continue reading Just curious.
I've been in the mood for more personal posts lately, so when I saw this floating around on Succulent Savage and collaredmichael's pages, I thought I'd participate while adding in more personal details about myself.•Been Married - I've been married my entire adult life. I've only actually been legally single for a few months.•Been divorced … Continue reading A list about me
This last year has been an eye-opener opener for me in so many ways. I'm not speaking to politics, or the pandemic, or the ongoing social crises we have been in. Though, all of those things are part of my life, as they are everyone else's too, and have influenced me. My current reflection and … Continue reading The gift of a year
Not all power exchange dynamics include acts of service. While it is more common than punishment, it is still one of those things that doesn't fit everyone. It also fits in dynamics differently for different people. For some, acts of service go both ways; from each side of the slash to the other. For others, … Continue reading Is this an Act of Service or a Chore?
There are many sides to who I can become in my role as his submissive. I can be his little girl, his good girl, his whore, or his fuck toy. Each of these is unique and different, a distinct feeling and place in my brain. My personality is slightly to dramatically different in each. I … Continue reading What I am to him – my four roles
Over the last several months Master and I have gone through a myriad of small changes and evolutions. My blog has only showed a snippet of them. Last spring, I wrote nearly every day, especially in May. With the start of summer and into fall (my busy season) my posts dropped to nearly nothing, and … Continue reading A Sunrise Bruise
I can't believe how long I have been absent from here! This is clearly the busy time of the year for me, since I was also absent this time last year. Combined with the quarantine, and living in a hotspot of cases, has led me to either being overly busy or feeling overwhelmed. Oh yeah, … Continue reading Hello All!
I've been extremely busy lately with two night classes I'm taking. Each class assigns at least 20 hours of homework each week, so I'm beyond maxed out between these and work and the rest of my life. If I had known how much work they would be, I would have taken only 1 at a … Continue reading A photographic story of bondage and escape!
Communication is a tricky thing. It comes and goes, waxes and wanes. What you do with it can make or break a situation or a relationship. Having it alone isn't enough. Quantity does not equal quality, and sometimes less is more. But not having enough can be death's kiss. If you are in a power-exchange … Continue reading Here’s 4 ways to strengthen your communication
The next prompt for 30 days is exploring kinks. We've done a lot of that lately, but if you're doing it right, the exploration never stops. My Master even mentioned an interest in going through our checklist worksheet again, just to see where we are and what's changed over the last couple years. Me, I'm … Continue reading In with some new kinks, and revisiting the old