Over the last several months Master and I have gone through a myriad of small changes and evolutions. My blog has only showed a snippet of them. Last spring, I wrote nearly every day, especially in May. With the start of summer and into fall (my busy season) my posts dropped to nearly nothing, and … Continue reading A Sunrise Bruise
I can't believe how long I have been absent from here! This is clearly the busy time of the year for me, since I was also absent this time last year. Combined with the quarantine, and living in a hotspot of cases, has led me to either being overly busy or feeling overwhelmed. Oh yeah, … Continue reading Hello All!
I've been extremely busy lately with two night classes I'm taking. Each class assigns at least 20 hours of homework each week, so I'm beyond maxed out between these and work and the rest of my life. If I had known how much work they would be, I would have taken only 1 at a … Continue reading A photographic story of bondage and escape!
Communication is a tricky thing. It comes and goes, waxes and wanes. What you do with it can make or break a situation or a relationship. Having it alone isn't enough. Quantity does not equal quality, and sometimes less is more. But not having enough can be death's kiss. If you are in a power-exchange … Continue reading Here’s 4 ways to strengthen your communication
The next prompt for 30 days is exploring kinks. We've done a lot of that lately, but if you're doing it right, the exploration never stops. My Master even mentioned an interest in going through our checklist worksheet again, just to see where we are and what's changed over the last couple years. Me, I'm … Continue reading In with some new kinks, and revisiting the old
We have four kids and 4 grandkids, so the next 30 days topic on being kinky and being a parent is definitely something I had to think about. When we started our power-exchange how to behave around our kids was something I thought about all the time. I had a lot of worries and fears, … Continue reading Trying to Make the Juggling Act Look Easy.
This next post from the 30 days of D/s is about Tasks and rituals. We have a few daily routines that keep our D/s strong and in place every day. If you are looking to start a power-exchange, this is the place to start, by building routines and rituals. They can be a place to … Continue reading The Daily Routines that Bind us
Master and I took a minute to go over our rules this morning. It seemed like time, since we hadn't done it in a while. Or so I thought. Covid-time has got me all messed up, and it turned out the last time we wrote something out wasn't all that long ago, last february. The … Continue reading Gaining pleasure in our surprising progress
If you've been reading my recent posts, you already know my Master told me he was considering a 6 month period of orgasm denial for me. Also, if you have been reading my blog for very long, you would also know this would be almost impossible for me. Much like collaredmichael noticed in his comments. … Continue reading My Master’s plan for my orgasms
We have been on quarantine a bit longer than the rest of the state. We got sick (especially my Master) just before everything took off, that is before they acknowledged the virus was moving through the community. We were put on quarantine by the doctor without a test available. So we've been locked up here … Continue reading Our #staythefuckhome event (not a post about covid)