Pineapple Juice!

Pineapple is the second most common safeword, preceded only by red. Seriously, look it up. There's a couple random words in the top ten list, like unicorn, but it's mostly assorted fruits and colors. Of course, there's also pineapple juice, but that's a different story. ("That is change. You know how long it took me … Continue reading Pineapple Juice!

Little minnie got her own pet skitty!

She worked very hard for it all week! She followed all Master's orders, and always did what he asked. She was available and ready, whenever Master wanted. She also had a really bad day, and worked through some big problems. She was a very good girl, Master even said so. And she was rewarded with … Continue reading Little minnie got her own pet skitty!

How to Explore Your Kinky Limits Safely

As I started looking into positive discussions on BDSM limits, I found an incredibly large amount of documents out there available for free. The intention of these is to read through each listed kink, mark them in one of several categories (haven't tried it, curious, soft limit, hard limit...), and discuss each as a couple. … Continue reading How to Explore Your Kinky Limits Safely

Tattoo Consultation (x3)!!!

Yup, I got a tattoo at 15. And, it's horrible. No surprise. It was 1991. I picked it off the wall. A simple rose. There wasn't much else that didn't have skulls. The shop was in the back of a Harley store, with gold-by-the-inch sold in the front. The artist was just passing through on … Continue reading Tattoo Consultation (x3)!!!

You can overcome negative emotions with communication

This prompt in 30 Days is on negative emotions; jealousy, anger, and fear. For me and my Dom, few negative emotions exist outside of conflict. Jealousy between us isn't more than a fleeting moment, if at all. Honestly, if someone flirted with Mr.R it might turn me on, though it would probably make him pretty … Continue reading You can overcome negative emotions with communication

little minnie

little minnie is the little side of me. She comes out when I am feeling particularly vulnerable. She is not a major part of me, per say. More specifically, we are not DD/lg full time. I am primarily submissive. However, I do touch into her, and she does feel like another side of me. minnie's … Continue reading little minnie

Vulnerability is actually a gift you give yourself.

I equate vulnerability to insecurity. It is more than that, of course. Much, much more. It is a state of being open, emotionally available, and free. Without vulnerability, you have no communication, no connection, no bonding. It is at the soul, the very nucleus, of love. It is a necessity for life and happiness. It … Continue reading Vulnerability is actually a gift you give yourself.

Squeakity, Squeak, Squeak, Squeakers.

This topic for 30 Days of D/s is about communication. Communication was always a strong point for us, before D/s became part of our dynamic. But like everything else in our relationship, it has become that much stronger and more important in D/s. We have created several protocols and routines that enforce our need to … Continue reading Squeakity, Squeak, Squeak, Squeakers.

Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. … Continue reading Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?