This Valentine’s Day Mr.R and I went out for the evening. We had a glorious night, the highlight of which was a fancy new day collar for me. It probably looks like a necklace to anyone else, but signifies quite a lot more to me. I wear it throughout the day, with Mr.R putting it on me during our Morning Ritual. It came with a bit of ceremony, a reciting of our mantras, our dedication to each other – more special then our marriage vows.