This is the 13th post of the 30 days of D/s. The topic here is about pain. Do you like pain? Do you want pain? Do you want to inflict pain?
I would consider myself to be something of a masochist. So, yes, I want the pain.
A masochist is an individual who takes pleasure in the experience of physical or emotional pain. Masochists often rely on this pain for sexual gratification. Masochists are said to suffer from a psychiatric condition called masochism.https://www.kinkly.com/definition/6267/masochist
When I think of my masochism, I think of physical pain. I’m not into emotional pain as a kink, though I am into humiliation, which is closely related. Physical pain is definitely not my only kink, but I would consider it high on the list. In my top 3, alongside humiliation and bondage. My Dom, Mr.R, does not consider himself a sadist. (Though, in my opinion, he is more than of one then he admits. 😉 ) His kink is mostly me.
A sadist is a person who is sexually aroused or gains sexual gratification by inflicting pain, cruelty, or humiliation on others. Sadists can also experience the same gratification from watching someone else do these things.https://www.kinkly.com/definition/395/sadist
Spankings are the primary way I experience pain. We do daily maintenance spankings as part of our morning ritual. At times when we have missed them, I have noticed within a day or two, and start to feel antsy. Spankings can also be part of funishment for us, but not punishment.
Finding time to get into deeper pain play can be tricky with kids in the house. It usually takes a weekend away, which we have coming up at the end of the month. (I am so excited!!) It’s been a bit too long for me since we have had some serious scene play. ‘A bit’
may be is a huge underaxageration. I’m super ready. Thankfully, we have an entire week without kids, plus new toys on the way! Now, if I can throw in some new leather cuffs…