Here’s 4 ways to strengthen your communication

Communication is a tricky thing. It comes and goes, waxes and wanes. What you do with it can make or break a situation or a relationship. Having it alone isn't enough. Quantity does not equal quality, and sometimes less is more. But not having enough can be death's kiss. If you are in a power-exchange … Continue reading Here’s 4 ways to strengthen your communication

In with some new kinks, and revisiting the old

The next prompt for 30 days is exploring kinks. We've done a lot of that lately, but if you're doing it right, the exploration never stops. My Master even mentioned an interest in going through our checklist worksheet again, just to see where we are and what's changed over the last couple years. Me, I'm … Continue reading In with some new kinks, and revisiting the old

Trying to Make the Juggling Act Look Easy.

We have four kids and 4 grandkids, so the next 30 days topic on being kinky and being a parent is definitely something I had to think about. When we started our power-exchange how to behave around our kids was something I thought about all the time. I had a lot of worries and fears, … Continue reading Trying to Make the Juggling Act Look Easy.

The Daily Routines that Bind us

This next post from the 30 days of D/s is about Tasks and rituals. We have a few daily routines that keep our D/s strong and in place every day. If you are looking to start a power-exchange, this is the place to start, by building routines and rituals. They can be a place to … Continue reading The Daily Routines that Bind us

Gaining pleasure in our surprising progress

Master and I took a minute to go over our rules this morning. It seemed like time, since we hadn't done it in a while. Or so I thought. Covid-time has got me all messed up, and it turned out the last time we wrote something out wasn't all that long ago, last february. The … Continue reading Gaining pleasure in our surprising progress

My Master’s plan for my orgasms

If you've been reading my recent posts, you already know my Master told me he was considering a 6 month period of orgasm denial for me. Also, if you have been reading my blog for very long, you would also know this would be almost impossible for me. Much like collaredmichael noticed in his comments. … Continue reading My Master’s plan for my orgasms

Our #staythefuckhome event (not a post about covid)

We have been on quarantine a bit longer than the rest of the state. We got sick (especially my Master) just before everything took off, that is before they acknowledged the virus was moving through the community. We were put on quarantine by the doctor without a test available. So we've been locked up here … Continue reading Our #staythefuckhome event (not a post about covid)

Two Topics I don’t Want to Write About

The next two topics given by 30 Days are probably the reason I haven't been moving forward in completing these topics; topic 25) When a D/s Relationship ends, and topic 26) Is 24/7 Right for You?. I do have good reasons though, ... sort of. My first excuse is that neither are experiences I have … Continue reading Two Topics I don’t Want to Write About

From On Top to Sub Drop

I've dropped off in writing toward my 30 days prompts, which yes, has taken me a year *ahem* a bit more then 30 days. But hey, I write what I am ready for! 😛 This prompt is about Drop, for both the top and bottom. Sub Drop - Sub drop consists of a variety of … Continue reading From On Top to Sub Drop

What Orgasm Denial can do for you.

I don't know when I last had an orgasm. My best approximation is the middle to the end of March. My Master decided to start a denial period at the beginning of April, however, that isn't when I last had an orgasm. We had already been edging for a couple days before that, but I … Continue reading What Orgasm Denial can do for you.