I am crazy busy right now, pushing to make a hefty deadline in only a few days. I have not yet had time to work up the many posts I have planned covering our core D/s foundations and framework, though they are coming. As a consolation and promise for what is coming, I thought I'd … Continue reading My week told through Spankings
There was a night, before Master and I were D/s, where I was crawling around in the attic plucking at red and black wires in the dark to finish the installation of the new ceiling fan. I’d gotten the over-sized fan with a built in bluetooth speaker as a final touch for the master bathroom … Continue reading What is a ‘traditional’ relationship?
"Wait." The command is sharp and clear, and I react immediately. When it comes from my Master, the word does not hold the standard meaning of the verb to hold on. No, it is a position, a behavior I must assume. I drop my clothes where I stand, and in one swift move I am … Continue reading My Morning Breath.
After any bigger kinky scene I tend to drop pretty hard, get angry, and then recover quickly. Rarely ever do I have a drop that continues long after that, though I have had some last for hours or even days. But those are the rare cases, and only with particularly intense or extra long scenes … Continue reading Subspace with a sprinkling of anger
Many people think of contracts as a statement, or possibly a list, written and signed on a particular date. It locks a moment in time, and the agreements made in that moment. While this process works for some, many find it cumbersome, too rigid, and hard to keep current. Sometimes people accidently lock down a … Continue reading How to Improve and Strengthen your D/s with a Living Contract
I am not a submissive person. Not in the slightest. To you, my readers and like-minded individuals in the D/s and kinky world, this might be a surprise. But to those who know me in the vanilla world, it is quite the opposite. People from my vanilla world, especially my family; my sisters, brothers, and … Continue reading Why Submission isn’t always easy
This THIS out! I updated my about me page. I think it looks pretty good. I borrowed some from a recent post, but also changed it up at the same time making the information easier to navigate. Before that, I revamped my categories a little, and updated my tags, narrowing the tag list down A … Continue reading How I’ve been Updating my Blog
That is all. XOXOXO minnie
I started the Twelve Days of Cockmas to honor my Master, and his most delicious and glorious cock. It began on December 25th, like the standard 12 Days of Christmas. I wrote about it when I started it, and am providing this as update to the gifts I have given him. Days 1 through 3 … Continue reading On the Last day of Cock-mas
This year, as part of our annual review at our D/s-iversary, we created a new collaring ritual. Our ritual holds great purpose and meaning, the most significant of which is grounding ourselves in our individual roles as dominate and submissive. It reinforces our power exchange by centering our minds on those roles for the day. … Continue reading Designing my Collaring to be Open and Focused