Designing my Collaring to be Open and Focused

This year, as part of our annual review at our D/s-iversary, we created a new collaring ritual. Our ritual holds great purpose and meaning, the most significant of which is grounding ourselves in our individual roles as dominate and submissive. It reinforces our power exchange by centering our minds on those roles for the day. … Continue reading Designing my Collaring to be Open and Focused

Reviewing our Power Exchange for 2021

Power exchange relationships are some of the most complex and deep relationships you can enter. They require a great deal of communication, and yield an even greater deal of intensity. They also need maintenance, evaluation, and reassessment of what is working and what isn't. They aren't for everyone. Master and I started our power-exchange at … Continue reading Reviewing our Power Exchange for 2021

On the first day of Cockmas…

*Warning: I will talk about cock in this post a lot. For Christmas this year I wanted to give Master something extra special. This last year has been rough on everyone, and the last two months have been the worst of it for us. As we have come out of that time of stress I … Continue reading On the first day of Cockmas…

Two Cocky Christmas Gifts

At the start of the week, Master gave me two special Christmas gifts. One was freedom to touch his cock, as much as I want for the next TWO MONTHS!! Ha ha ha, okay, just until Christmas. 😁😁😁 This is such a great gift for me. We practice cock worship, and keeping Mr. Cock away … Continue reading Two Cocky Christmas Gifts

Hello, readers, it’s me, minnie.

I've had a recent influx of new followers, and with it questions about how to find stuff on my blog, and who I am. I invite any and all of you to continue to email me with questions about my life, how to start or maintain a power-exchange relationship, or what it is to be … Continue reading Hello, readers, it’s me, minnie.

Lipstick matters.

Recently I got to put on lipstick again. I've been sick the last two months, which yes, has led to a deprivation of self care. The other factor is the need for facemasks. While I believe in wearing masks wholeheartedly, they also make lipstick feel like nonsense. Not only do they cover up your lips … Continue reading Lipstick matters.

A public spanking, indeed.

In my various searchings and ramblings across the internet I came across this little gem. If you do a google search for the image you will find it posted on various bdsm, spanking or other kinky sites and blogs. Some of which claim it is a fake due to the position of the spanking officer's … Continue reading A public spanking, indeed.

Curiosity killed the pussy cat.

If you've been reading my blog lately, you'll have noticed I haven't been in the best head space. I am pushing through, and Master is making me new rules to get me back into place. They are very basic; 1) Make him coffee every morning by nine, 2) Get dressed - or more specifically be … Continue reading Curiosity killed the pussy cat.

I need to chill the fuck out.

I've felt really separated from my submission lately. More than that, I've felt separated from our power-exchange all together. (Master knows, and we've been talking about it. He's riding this boat with me.) That is part of the reason why we're starting anew, writing everything over again. Tomorrow we leave for a weekend excursion to … Continue reading I need to chill the fuck out.

Why we’re celebrating our D/s-Anniversary by starting over.

We're coming up on our two year D/s-iversery. Um, yes, that's a thing. In honor of our two years in a full time, 24/7, power exchange relationship - we threw it out. Ha ha ha! Gotcha! I'm exaggerating, of course, but it's true. What we are literally doing is starting from scratch. Or, at least, … Continue reading Why we’re celebrating our D/s-Anniversary by starting over.