Communication is a tricky thing. It comes and goes, waxes and wanes. What you do with it can make or break a situation or a relationship. Having it alone isn't enough. Quantity does not equal quality, and sometimes less is more. But not having enough can be death's kiss. If you are in a power-exchange … Continue reading Here’s 4 ways to strengthen your communication
We have four kids and 4 grandkids, so the next 30 days topic on being kinky and being a parent is definitely something I had to think about. When we started our power-exchange how to behave around our kids was something I thought about all the time. I had a lot of worries and fears, … Continue reading Trying to Make the Juggling Act Look Easy.
The next two topics given by 30 Days are probably the reason I haven't been moving forward in completing these topics; topic 25) When a D/s Relationship ends, and topic 26) Is 24/7 Right for You?. I do have good reasons though, ... sort of. My first excuse is that neither are experiences I have … Continue reading Two Topics I don’t Want to Write About
We entered into our full-time power exchange over a year ago. When we did, daily maintenance spankings instantly became part of our morning ritual, which in turn evolved into my daily collaring. Our ritual consisted of three parts; inspection, impact\spanking, and mantras. Each step was designed with intentional thought, driven from some need one of … Continue reading Morning Maintenance Spankings: A year-long reflection
This is a real question I have. No, I'm not talking about topping from the bottom. Nor am I talking about my dynamic specifically. It might be more accurate phrased differently. Especially since I can hear your knee-jerk reaction. I heard mine. Hit the table, knee still hurts... But seriously, if you know anything about … Continue reading Can a submissive train a Master?
Mr.R and I have been full-time D/s for an entire year now. Officially. YAY!!!! Applause accepted gracefully. Thank you, and curtsy. 🙂 I have to say I'm quite proud of us. When we started a year ago I had no idea what I was getting into. Which is weird, I admit, because I was the … Continue reading Happy D/s-iversary to us!!!!
We've started a new Christmas tradition, one where Master and minnie have their own Christmas together... and no one else is invited. 🙂 Little minnie even got her own Magical Christmas!! We kept our house in California, and are using it as a vacation house, which is great for our playground. I found these awesome … Continue reading Master and minnie’s Christmas 🎄
I'm narrowing in on a year for this blog, and like so many other bloggers out there I'm figuring out my place, and asking important questions. What are my goals? How do I fit in with other D/s bloggers? Is my voice any different then everyone else? Is there value in this blog, in my … Continue reading Writing
Our life is chugging along, and we are getting settled in. We have attended a couple local events, a munch and a vendor fair, with more on the horizon. We had more planned for this week, but -of course- I'm sick again. I swear I am constantly sick, especially compared to my Master. He is … Continue reading Chugging along
My mom and sisters have been visiting all week. It's been a great treat, especially since they are flying in from across the country. It has given me the family connection I needed after moving two states away. They do not, however, know who I really am, minnie. They know my vanilla self, the child … Continue reading Stuck in a rabbit hole?