Punishment, or more accurately, your use of punishment is a major element in any power-exchange relationship. That doesn't mean you should definitely have it. It does mean you should definitely talk about it, have negotiated norms and expectations around it. You should also leave room to renegotiate those terms as time passes and your dynamic … Continue reading How to use PUNISHMENT to shape your dynamic effectively.
She worked very hard for it all week! She followed all Master's orders, and always did what he asked. She was available and ready, whenever Master wanted. She also had a really bad day, and worked through some big problems. She was a very good girl, Master even said so. And she was rewarded with … Continue reading Little minnie got her own pet skitty!